First they are the children we love, and second, a swimmer. All athletes need to be assured that we'll love them whether they perform well or not; All we expect is that they always that they give their best effort.

Positive Parent Support Tips:

• Your child needs your emotional and physical support. Be liberal in providing this support.
• Support but do not push your child.
• Understand development – long-term development as an athlete, and growth and development as it impacts performance.
• Be realistic in terms of expectations; factor in age and skill level; be aware of your child’s perception of [your] expectations.
• Emphasize performance and effort, not just outcome. The athlete only has control over his/her performance. Define and measure success as giving maximal effort and as personal improvement.
• Keep winning in perspective - performing a personal best-time is as important as winning the race.
• Do not bribe.
• Give plenty of encouraging and rewarding comments and feedback.
• View swimming as an opportunity to teach your child about commitment, hard work, and coping with success and adversity.
• Work to form an effective Coach-Athlete-Parent Triangle.